(I'm reading "Hector and the secret of love", a novel written by Francis Lelord.It's about a man -a psychiatrist- who tried to understand love and struggle through his personal love and relationship affairs.Most of the time,relationship is the big issue for our daily life not only with your so called "lover" but also with everyone who comes and exists in your life.That is such a long story and sometimes we've never known how should we deal with it.It has been on the process always,I guess)
Below is what Hector learnt about "neediness". I think everyone needs something more or less.Neediness seems to be critical in love and relationship issue.Hector found that:
"Neediness sometimes reaches peaks of suffering the intensity of which makes us fearful of the hours to come (How will I survive today? Tomorrow? The rest of my life?) It also causes moments of abstraction when we are with other people,even people we like.It is generally accepted that confiding our feelings to a close friend or professional can bring real life,although this is generally short-lived." (Page 129)
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