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I understand myself much better when I was in unpleasant circumstances intentionally as well as unintentionally.
I can see wholely what actually the result will be or how peolple behave in such situation. Those reflect to me
and make me see who really am I.

Positively, I has learned a lot from others' doing and thinking.I will understand myself obviuosly what/who I do or don't like by confronting its own/theirs own. Even it's hard to accept but that's your way. You might find the ugly or pretty truth about yourself anyhow in the end.